Jan 15

Are You on the Wrong End? Talking Heart2Heart

Hunter or Hunted

Ladies, are you on the wrong end…The Hunter or Being Hunted?

I saw an episode of “The Steve Harvey Show,” and he had a guest who was desperately seeking to find a husband. Steve arranged a date for her, so he could observe during the date. As soon as her date sat down, she drilled him about love, relationship, marriage, children, and family. It was quite obvious that the guy was overwhelmed by her aggressiveness, and it appeared to be a turn off as well. When she returned to the show, Steve immediately told her that she was on the wrong end of this plot. She was doing the chasing, and this was running men away from her. We (women) are to be hunted or chased because we are the PRIZE. Proverbs 18:22 “HE who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD.Are you on the wrong end hunting for Mr. Right?

Every woman dreams of a Knight and Shining Armor coming to sweep her off her feet, but many times impatience plays a part in the situation. Some women take control of the situation and become the hunter instead of being hunted. She is on the wrong end of the relationship because the roles are switched. When this occurs, you might end up in a relationship that wasn’t in your future. Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.” When you take things into your own hands, the relationship may be doomed from the start because the play was forced. When anything or anyone is forced to do something, it’s more likely than not that some damage has taken place. Sometimes damage is not noticed right away because your view may be obscured. Your focus may be on other things in the relationship or the hype of having a relationship.

In this modern society, the proper ways of yesterday has taken a dramatic turn. Women are now just as aggressive as men, and in some cases more aggressive which is out-of-order. When you are on the wrong end, things are not as clear because you are out-of-place. Your place in a relationship is very important because it allows you to see the very foundation on which it stands. You don’t want to get years down the road and realize your relationship happened because you chased and caught your mate. This may even cause problems down the line because your relationship is only as strong as the foundation it stands on.

Relationships should be viewed as one of the most important life choices you will ever face in your lifetime, so the virtue of patience is imperative. When you exercise patience, it may prevent you from getting involved with the wrong mate. You must believe that there is a special someone designed just for you, and I believe this was done before you were born. Jeremiah 1:5 “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart.”

Ladies, for this reason alone just know that you don’t have to hunt down or chase after anyone. 1 Corinthians 11:7 “The woman is the GLORY of the man.” With that being said, walk in the GLORY that you are, and don’t end up on the wrong end of a relationship. Let’s have a round table on this subject, so leave your comments below:

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