Family members are allowing these killers to work through them, apparently, they are not aware of the damage it’s causing to the structure of the family. The damage even threatens the future generations because of the cracked foundation that they are forced to build upon, and your structure is only as good as your foundation. The motive of these killers are to destroy the family by any means necessary, but the killers can only work through a willing party. So when you talk about other family members in a negative way you are a willing party choosing to do a killing . When you allow the killer jealousy, envy, back-biting, bitterness, or hatred to use you as a tool against your own family, just be aware that you are one in the same. You are actually attacking yourself as well because you are connected by a bloodline. All of these killers are pure poison to the family, and it will eventually breakdown the family. Matthew 7:1 “Judge not, that ye be not judged.”
Sometimes when poison gets into your system, no amount of medicine can stop the infection. Once infection spreads, it’s almost impossible to stop it because infection can run rapidly with the intent to breakdown and destroy the system. With that being said, it’s the same when the poison of jealousy, envy, back-biting, bitterness, and hatred gets into the family. Sometimes apologies are just not enough to repair the damage of the poison. This poison travels from family member to family member and so on and before you know it the chaos has exploded in the family. James 4:11 “Speak not evil one of another, brothers/sisters. He that speak evil of his brother/sister, and judge his brother/sister speak evil of the law, and judge the law: but of thou judge the law, thou art not a of the law, but a judge.”
Once you give the poison of jealousy, envy, backbiting, and hatred an entrance family members may avoid each other, or refuse to attend family functions because the killers has taken control. This is the type of destruction these killers will cause in the family, and you will someday look back and wonder how the situation got to this point. So it’s the responsibility of each family member to guard their heart, mind, mouth, and emotions. We must learn to communicate with each other in a loving way. John 15:12 “This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you.” There’s none among us who are perfect, but we all should put forth an effort to grow.
As a family unit, all must cover for your brothers and sisters because as you do so you are also covering yourself. When another family member gains wealth or fame, you should rejoice as well because you are apart of the same family. It’s important to cast down all known and unknown killers to prevent destruction to a God ordained unit, FAMILY. We, the family members must step up and carry on as (Big Momma) taught us to do. Proverbs 6:20 “do not forsake your mother’s teaching.” Every family has had or have a (Big Momma), but when she’s no longer physically with us the family tends to fall apart. So I’m challenging all families to recall the teachings of your (Big Momma), and get back to loving each other as families should. Let’s be that fist which has more power than the fingers when they are spread apart.
We can be that power house of a unit because of the Love of God who dwells inside our hearts. Start loving each other on purpose with a sincere heart and good intentions knowing that you are in the will of God because family is God’s creation. Remember, what you pray or wish for others will eventually show up in your life, so make sure you are doing His will. Galatians 6:7 “Don’t be deceived: God is not mocked; for whatever you SOW, you will REAP it.” So enjoy life, be kind to one another, love hard, love deep, love long, and watch as Gods’ blessings overtake your family because anywhere God continually dwells the blessings are sure to follow. God is Love, and we are to love each other with our whole heart, mind and soul.
God has placed each of us in a family, and it’s our responsibility to keep the devil from destroy that which God has given to us. I hope this post will open every family members eyes to see the devil for what he is; a destroyer. He hates any and everything God has already said, is good.