Jun 03

Constructive or Destructive Power – Part 2; Talking Heart2Heart



The tongue is a weapon that has the power to lead you in a positive or negative direction. James 3:5-6 “Even so the tongue is a little member, and boast great things. Behold how great a matter a little fire kindles! And the tongue is a fire, [The tongue is a] world of wickedness set among our members, contaminating the body and setting on fire the wheel of birth (the cycle of man’s nature), being itself ignited by hell.”

You must take responsibility for what comes out of your mouth without justification. Matthew 12:37 “For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.” The tongue is a small member of the body, yet it is one of the most damaging tools you have. On the other hand, this can be a positive force in your life that can lead you to the path of success. Your fate in life depends on your attitude of heart and self-control as to which power you will allow in your life. So will you be a constructive leader or a destructive follower?

If you take control of your thoughts by leading them, your tongue will follow suit. The thought comes then you speak, but it’s important to process your thoughts before expressing them because it could very well be your last expression. We are living in a time where everyone appears to be on edge. Have you ever heard of so many random killings as we do today? These killings are reported, and the first thing they say is “this is not the person I knew.” But no one really knows that inner man but that man or woman.

Every thought that enters your mind is not to be expressed, this seems to be an issue in America today. For some apparent reason, we think we can say whatever, whenever, and to whomever we feel like expressing thought. This is not only inappropriate and rude, but it can also be very damaging in which sometimes it may cost you. You must remember with every action there is a reaction, so consequences are sure to follow rather it be a constructive or a destructive action2 Corinthians 5:10 “For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive what is due for what he has done in the body, whether good or evil.”




Everyone has the right to express themselves, but it should be done in a constructive way. Galatians 5:22-23 “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.” Dr. King and many others are great examples of demonstrating freedom of speech in a constructive way. As the demonstrations and protests had no negative intentions of causing harm to anyone, but to express one’s individual rights and equality for all. Many times when this right is denied, the constructive behavior results into a destructive way out of mere frustration at which time self-control is needed. Freedom of speech is a right for all, but you must follow the proper process to embark upon the constructive power of strength, unity, advancement, and growth. Even though we have come so far in this world, we still have such a long way to go because we don’t respect each other and our God-given differences.





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